Remembering Your Loved Ones On Your Wedding Day

Planning your wedding will be exciting, fun and a challenge at times! You know exactly how you vision your day, your dress, hair, the cake, venue styling etc. So many different decisions to make.
One of the most important decision will be your wedding guest list. All your friends and family that you want to be there to celebrate your special day. For some of us this can also be a very emotional time. Maybe a loved one that should be with you on your special day to celebrate is no longer with you. You want them to be part of your day, but your not sure how to do this.

I hear so many brides-to-be talk about their loved ones that have passed when planning their wedding. Knowing that their loved one that has passed can physically not be with them but wondering how they can make them part of their special day. For comfort, to honour, in memory and respect.

Memories will live on, in our hearts and mind.
Your wedding day is without a doubt going to be one of the most important days of your life and one that will stay in your memory for a life time. You want all them memories to be perfect memories of your day. Through planning and organising you can make that happen, so your day will run smoothly and exactly how you want it to be. Most importantly keeping the memories of your loved ones alive on your day.

 Emotions run high when someone close to us is no longer with us, that should be there to witness your marriage and be part of your special day.
There are certain things that you can do to make it a little easier and to make you feel like they are included.

I had many family members that I wished that could of been with me to celebrate our marriage, such as my Mum and grandparents.
I believe that when a loved one has passed that they will always be in spirit to watch over us. We are all different and need and want different things. For me this was enough, for others they need more and that is absolutely fine.
 I married on very hot summer's day, the 29th July 2012. I woke up to a beautiful blue sky and the sun shining bright, the weather forecast was perfect! What I didn't expect was rain. Yes,  just before I was about to walk down the aisle the heavens opened! It was crazy, I'd never seen anything like it. Luckily for me I was getting married inside my venue so didn't have to go outside. It rained all through my ceremony, I'm not kidding. Funny thing was I didn't even worry about it, I was just so happy. As soon as we had tied the knot, it was time to go outside for our photographs in the beautiful grounds of our venue. The rain had stopped! The sun was beaming and our photographs were perfect! My little Irish Nana would tell me 'Rain is a sign of happiness you know' I would laugh and say 'happiness! Are you mad, it's rain' this was something she had told me from a young age. Unfortunately my Nana couldn't be their on our special day, but she sure showed me in other ways that she was there in spirit.

It's only natural that you would want your loved one to be part of your day, so let's look at the small things we can do to honour your loved one and help you to feel that they are still going to be part of your day.


Creating a beautiful table with photographs of your loved one. Add some pretty lighting, their favourite flowers etc. A photograph is worth a thousand words.


Reserve your loved one a seat during your ceremony. Place a framed photograph of them and some beautiful flowers, note or poem etc.


You can purchase beautiful photograph charms that you pin to your bouquet or can hold. For some brides this is a real comfort knowing that as you are walking down the isle your loved one is close to you.


Saying a few words about your loved one either during the speeches or at your evening reception is a special way to honour your loved one. This maybe hard for you to do, so maybe you could ask the best man or maid of honour to say this on behalf of you.


Incorporate your loved ones favourite flower by adding it to your bouquet, table centre pieces, etc. You could also display your loved ones favourite flowers on a table before your ceremony. Add a displayed sign for your guests for them to take one to hold in memory.


Light a sky lantern and light up the sky! I love this idea, it can be something that you and all your guests can take part in. You can purchase lanterns in different colours, so choose your loved ones favourite colour and add a note or poem to your lantern. Watch as the beautiful lanterns light up the night sky. How amazing would this be.


Maybe your loved one was a great cook or they had a favourite food. Why not add this to your wedding menu!
'Mum's sticky chocolate pudding'
'Dad's chicken surprise'
This is a fun idea.


Wedding favours are also a lovely way to remember your loved one on your wedding day. Did they have a favourite chocolate, sweet, perfume, wine etc. You can purchase miniature everything now! Maybe your loved one had to have their favourite bottle of Bailey's at Christmas. Purchase some miniature bottles for your favours and tie a note saying ' Have a drink on name!'

Remembering that your loved one would want you to have the most special, magical day and would not want you to be getting upset for them is so important. As much as it hurts you, you have to remember that this is your special day, its all about you and your future husband/wife, your future, your love and your life together. Your celebrating your love for each other.
Your day will be perfect, enjoy every moment!

The Bucking Fizz!

Mobile bars are becoming an extremely popular addition for weddings. They look amazing and can really give your wedding day that wow factor. Couples are looking for something different and unique to add to their special day which is why mobile bars are becoming so popular. They also make a fantastic back drop for all your wedding day photographs!

Bridal Hair Accessories

Choosing your bridal hair accessory is another important decision you will need to make. 

Marquee Weddings

I just love a marquee wedding. There is just something so special. I think a marquee wedding sets the tone for a magical

The Honeymoon

The Honeymoon is something that the bride and groom really looks forward to. It will give you both time to unwind after your wedding and is a well deserved break that you will both need together.

Italy Destination Wedding

For some couples their dream of a destination  wedding never becomes reality. The reason is that some couples just don't know where to

The Wedding Guitarist

Most couples want a wedding that is unique. So, when it comes to choosing their wedding music they don't want to get it wrong.

Memories Of Your Wedding Day

Memories are something that we all hold on to in our mind. Storing so many different memories of the good times, the happy or even the sad. The mind is truly a wonderful thing!.

The Bride's Speech

The groom, the bride's father and the best mans speech is one that all the guests look forward to hearing and always seem to be remembered.  So, why not throw in a brides speech too and give your wedding guests a surprise, after all, it is your wedding too!.

2019 Vintage Inspired Bridal Gowns!

If you are planning a vintage themed wedding then your going to need your vintage style bridal gown too.  There is something I just love about vintage style bridal gowns, they make

The perfect Fairytale Wedding Venue!

A countryside wedding is what you have always dreamt of, you just haven't found the venue yet. Read on, I may of just found it for you!

Wedding Music

We all know that having music at your wedding is a must. We hear music daily to wake us up in the morning, in the car on the way to work, on the TV, for relaxation etc.

2019 Hottest Wedding Trends!

For all you 2019 brides to be, I have put together some of the must haves for your special day!

Wedding Flowers

Your wedding flowers play a big part of your wedding. Helping you to transform and create a beautiful setting, matching your colour and wedding theme and your personality.  Choosing your wedding flowers is another exciting part of your planning but can be a difficult one. There are so

The Hen Party!

The hen party is something that us girls discuss before we have even met the man of our dreams!. It is another part of the wedding planning that's exciting, fun, an excuse to really let our hair down and have a right girly night, day out or even weekend away.

Choosing Your Wedding Planner!

You have decided to get some help with planning your wedding and your not quite sure where to start. Planning a wedding can be hard work, stressful and will require

City Wedding Venue

If you love the city vibe, the hustle and bustle, the glamour, the stylish modern hotels and buildings then a city wedding may be just for

The Groom's Outfit

Here is a post for all the grooms!. I thought it was about time to give them some tips and advice and help them out too. We don't want them feeling left out now do we! Of course the groom's outfit is just as important as the bride's dress and the groom wants to feel and look his best on his wedding day.

The Mother of the Bride & Groom outfits!

It's such an exciting time for you, your husband to be and all the family, everyone just loves a wedding and for the Mum's this is a very special time and they want to look their best! Your Mum's I expect are so excited and just can not wait to get their outfits, before they do it's time to give them all the information they need to know.
  Time to talk!

The Bridesmaids!

When you and your husband to be have finally set a date for your wedding it's time to pop the question to your bridesmaids to be! Or is it?

Eco Friendly Wedding!

I had the pleasure of getting to know Sinem from B&D Wedding Event Planning.  Sinem loves the art of brainstorming, crafting and telling a story when designing a wedding event. I asked her what advice she could give a bride that wants a eco friendly wedding, here is the fantastic advice she gave!

Capture all the happy memories of your guests on your wedding day!

Wedding Cake Inspiration!

Talented and creative bakers are designing wedding cakes all over the world that I can only describe as magnificent works of art!

Bridal Makeup!

I think we all deserve some pampering on our wedding day and makeup can give us that little boost to make us feel confident, beautiful and it finishes off our wedding day look!

The Wedding Rings!

Wedding ring shopping is so exciting!
 I just love this part, It gives you and your partner some fun time together. I would recommend buying your rings about 3-5 months prior to your wedding day, this gives you plenty of time to

The Wedding Shoes!

One of my favourite parts of planning a Wedding is choosing the Shoes, us girls love Shoes and when the day comes that we can choose our Wedding Shoes we can finally get those princess shoes that we all dreamt of when we were little, see some dreams do come true!

5 Things To Discuss When You're Newly Engaged! By My Guest Blogger Guides For Brides

5 Things To Discuss When You're Newly Engaged

Congratulations, you’re engaged! Before you start to pin wedding dress pictures or visit venues, it’s important to sit down with your other half to discuss a few important issues. When wedding planning, you need to be on the same page and working towards the same vision, so Guides for Brides have listed the top five things to discuss before you put any money down...

The Guest List

Sit down together and make a list of the family and friends you’d like at the service, again there is loads of print off guest lists online, choose who you’d like to be there on the

The Dress

Choosing the perfect fairytale dress can be stressful! The good news is there are thousands of them to choose from, so eventually you will find the one. I've been married twice, yes twice! and I know first

The Wedding Budget

Money is never a good subject to talk about in a relationship but unfortunately it's a must when planing your big day and should be the first thing on your list.

Choosing The Venue

When it comes to getting married, the place you choose to do it is just as important as the dress, your guest list and even the rings you choose. As well as being the backdrop to all of your photographs, the venue of the ceremony should represent you and your partner’s personalities.

Wedding Hair Inspiration!

What Hair Style will you choose for your wedding day?
If you are looking for wedding hair inspiration then your on the right page!. I think we all have a image

The Younger Guests!

Weddings are all about family so for those that have a large family will most likely have relatives with children or maybe you have children yourself, if that is the case then having children attend your wedding is a must. You may of course not want children at your wedding and if that is the case then you need to make sure that you let the parents know when sending out the wedding invitations, I have done a post all about your wedding invitations.

2019 Wedding Dress Trends!

The traditional white bridal dress will always be around but designers are now looking through the eyes of every woman to make every individual brides dream come true so they can have their perfect fairytale wedding dress. With so many different designs to choose from, there will be a dress you fall in love with!

2019 Vintage Inspired Bridal Gowns!

If you are planning a vintage themed wedding then your going to need your vintage style bridal gown too.  There is something I just love...